素黑心疗:一个人不要怕《一个人不要怕》第一部分序:失落的一半在哪儿(1) 关于寻觅另一半,有一个我们熟识但是只听了一半的神话:在男女之爱还未出现的远古时代,人都是雌雄同体(hermaphrodites)。当时的人并不需要另一个体也能诞出下一代。后来人被割裂成两半,(注意!为什么呢?)于是人类之间划分了性别的鸿沟。更加重要的是,我们因此心里总感到缺失了什么,死命需要寻找失掉的另外一半。 从此人世弥漫着无间的男女之爱,也伴随着爱的甜蜜和痛苦,而痛苦总是压倒性盘桓在恋人心里,因为我们都背负着思维(mind),用脑袋而不是透过心来爱。头脑总是执著痛苦多于爱。执著自我,爱成了自虐。因为自虐,故此痛苦,所以理直气壮地虐待人。因为受虐,所以更合理化了自虐,人世的爱沦为自虐虐他的无间地狱。...
泛黄的照片里有几张面孔,他们和注视着照片的这名年轻女人之间,相隔几百年的距离。年轻女人非常喜爱这张照片。每次到祖母家去玩,她总是要祖母把这张照片拿给她看。照片里是3张孩子的面孔,他们早已逝去多年,但老古董式的相机却把久远以前的童年瞬间收进了镜头。3个孩子站着排成一列,最年长而且身材最高的孩子站在最左边,其次是身高、年龄较低的孩子,按着顺序向右排开。站在两端的男孩年龄大约是10岁和2岁。而站在正中间的女孩则大约是5岁。 每次看到这张照片,年轻女人都会感到自己和未知的过去之间有一种关系。照片里是她的曾祖母和曾祖母的两个兄弟。然而如果不知道这一点,光凭想像,却能让人联想到照片里的女孩就是正在欣赏照片的她。因为照片里的曾祖母,和她童年时代的脸庞简直相似到极点。祖母把这张脸叫做“家族的脸孔”,而她的亲戚拥有这张面孔和这双眼睛的,的确相当多。...
A Wagner MatineeI received one morning a letter, written in pale ink onglassy, blue-lined notepaper, and bearing the postmark of alittle Nebraska village. This communication, worn and rubbed,looking as though it had been carried for some days in a coatpocket that was none too clean, was from my Uncle Howard andinformed me that his wife had been left a small legacy by abachelor relative who had recently died, and that it would be...
(四)孔子眼中的“孝”-方尔加 主讲人简介: 方尔加,中国政法大学教授,北京大学兼职教授。著有《荀子新论》等专著多本,多年来一直潜心研究孔孟哲学,多年被评为学校“最受欢迎的老师”。 内容简介: 这个孝应该是我们中国最不陌生的道德了,尊重老人,尊老、爱老,这个道德也是我们中华民族最深层的道德,最普遍的道德。不管是哪个民族,不管是哪个地区,不管是什么职业,不管是哪个年龄段,人们共同认同这个道德。 孝这个道德在中国历史上源远流长,很早人们就崇尚这个道德。这个孝在卜辞里头,在最原始的文字,在卜辞里头,它的形状像什么呢?像一棵树,树上头枝繁叶茂,上头有枝叶,底下是根。你这个枝叶不管多么复杂,多么繁多。但是你都根源于一个根,你的生命力在根,你都来源于这个根,那么我们中华民族最大的祖先,最大的老,当然我们是炎黄子孙,有炎帝,有黄帝,炎黄子孙。所以孝这个道德,在...
ARTAXERXES437-359 B.C.by Plutarchtranslated by John DrydenTHE first Artaxerxes, among all the kings of Persia the mostremarkable for a gentle and noble spirit, was surnamed theLong-handed, his right hand being longer than his left, and was theson of Xerxes. The second, whose story I am now writing, who had thesurname of the Mindful, was the grandson of the former, by his...
The Man versus the Stateby Herbert Spencer1884PrefaceThe Westminster Review for April 1860, contained an article entitled "Parliamentary Reform: the Dangers and the Safeguards." In that article I ventured to predict some results of political changes then proposed. Reduced to its simplest expression, the thesis maintained was that, unless due precautions were taken, increase of freedom in form would be followed by decrease of freedom in fact. Nothing has occurred to alter the belief I then
BROWN OF CALAVERASA subdued tone of conversation, and the absence of cigar smoke andboot heels at the windows of the Wingdam stagecoach, made itevident that one of the inside passengers was a woman. Adisposition on the part of loungers at the stations to congregatebefore the window, and some concern in regard to the appearance ofcoats, hats, and collars, further indicated that she was lovely.All of which Mr. Jack Hamlin, on the box seat, noted with the smile...
《桃源》作者:阿强序言冒泡鉴于现在网上有太多的“太监”网游,我和几个死党都非常气愤,认为有必要认认真真为大家奉献一部“完整的”且很不经典的网游。在这里要特别感谢死党Ice & Water,他不仅常常陪我写作到半夜,其中有许多情节也是由他这个游戏老手提供;另外,也有死党Garrod的大力支持,谢意不能言表。该文仅是为了给大家余闲消遣之用,因此除了更新速度和建议外,请看官不要对我诸多苛求。中学到大学都是一个人游戏的黄金时段,不过更是学习的大好时光,因为如今还没有像本游戏背景一样已经达到按需分配的时期。游戏是令人上瘾滴,但自己的前途更是需要自己去把握滴。我不想说一些“劝人向善”的话,但希望游戏中的高手低手、新手老手都能在某个时刻放下紧握的鼠标,好好的思考一下自己的将来!...
PAUL THE PEDDLEROR THE FORTUNES OF A YOUNG STREET MERCHANTBY HORATIO ALGER, JR.BIOGRAPHY AND BIBLIOGRAPHYHoratio Alger, Jr., an author who lived among and for boys andhimself remained a boy in heart and association till death, wasborn at Revere, Mass., January 13, 1834. He was the son of aclergyman, was graduated at Harvard College in 1852, and at itsDivinity School in 1860 and was pastor of the Unitarian Church at...