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Letters to His Son�察�1748

by Lord Chesterfield




                           LETTERS TO HIS SON
                      By the EARL OF CHESTERFIELD

                     on the Fine Art of becoming a

                            MAN OF THE WORLD

                                 and a

                               GENTLEMAN




LETTER XXIV

January 2�察�O。 S。  1748。

DEAR BOY�此�I am edified with the allotment of your time at Leipsig�察�which is so well employed from morning till night�察�that a fool would say you had none left for yourself�察�whereas�察�I am sure you have sense enough to know�察�that such a right use of your time is having it all to yourself�察�nay�察�it is even more�察�for it is laying it out to immense interest�察�which�察�in a very few years�察�will amount to a prodigious capital。

Though twelve of your fourteen 'Commensaux' may not be the liveliest people in the world�察�and may want ��as I easily conceive that they do�� 'le ton de la bonne campagnie�察�et les graces'�察�which I wish you�察�yet pray take care not to express any contempt�察�or throw out any ridicule�察�which I can assure you�察�is not more contrary to good manners than to good sense�此�but endeavor rather to get all the good you can out of them�察�and something or other is to be got out of everybody。  They will�察�at least�察�improve you in the German language�察�and�察�as they come from different countries�察�you may put them upon subjects�察�concerning which they must necessarily be able to give you some useful informations�察�let them be ever so dull or disagreeable in general�此�they will know something�察�at least�察�of the laws�察�customs�察�government�察�and considerable families of their respective countries�察�all which are better known than not�察�and consequently worth inquiring into。  There is hardly any body good for every thing�察�and there is scarcely any body who is absolutely good for nothing。  A good chemist will extract some spirit or other out of every substance�察�and a man of parts will�察�by his dexterity and management�察�elicit something worth knowing out of every being he converses with。

As you have been introduced to the Duchess of Courland�察�pray go there as often as ever your more necessary occupations will allow you。  I am told she is extremely well bred�察�and has parts。  Now�察�though I would not recommend to you�察�to go into women's company in search of solid knowledge�察�or judgment�察�yet it has its use in other respects�察�for it certainly polishes the manners�察�and gives 'une certaine tournure'�察�which is very necessary in the course of the world�察�and which Englishmen have generally less of than any people in the world。

I cannot say that your suppers are luxurious�察�but you must own they are solid�察�and a quart of soup�察�and two pounds of potatoes�察�will enable you to pass the night without great impatience for your breakfast next morning。  One part of your supper ��the potatoes�� is the constant diet of my old friends and countrymen�撮�Lord Chesterfield�察�from the time he was appointed Lord´lieutenant of Ireland�察�1775�察�used always to call the Irish his countrymen。�А�the Irish�察�who are the healthiest and the strongest bodies of men that I know in Europe。

As I believe that many of my letters to you and to Mr。 Harte have miscarried�察�as well as some of yours and his to me�察�particularly one of his from Leipsig�察�to which he refers in a subsequent one�察�and which I never received�察�I would have you�察�for the future�察�acknowledge the dates of all the letters which either of you shall receive from me�察�and I will do the same on my part。

That which I received by the last mail�察�from you�察�was of the 25th November�察�N。 S。�察�the mail before that brought me yours�察�of which I have forgot the date�察�but which inclosed one to Lady Chesterfield�此�she will answer it soon�察�and�察�in the mean time�察�thanks you for it。

My disorder was only a very great cold�察�of which I am entirely recovered。 You shall not complain for want of accounts from Mr。 Grevenkop�察�who will frequently write you whatever passes here�察�in the German language and character�察�which will improve you in both。  Adieu。




LETTER XXV

LONDON�察�January 15�察�O。 S。  1748。

DEAR BOY�此�I willingly accept the new´year's gift which you promise me for next year�察�and the more valuable you make it�察�the more thankful I shall be。 That depends entirely upon you�察�and therefore I hope to be presented�察�every year�察�with a new edition of you�察�more correct than the former�察�and considerably enlarged and amended。

Since you do not care to be an assessor of the imperial chamber�察�and that you desire an establishment in England�察�what do you think of being Greek Professor at one of our universities�拭 �It is a very pretty sinecure�察�and requires very little knowledge ��much less than�察�I hope�察�you have already�� of that language。  If you do not approve of this�察�I am at a loss to know what else to propose to you�察�and therefore desire that you will inform me what sort of destination you propose for yourself�察�for it is now time to fix it�察�and to take our measures accordingly。  Mr。 Harte tells me that you set up for a �察�if so�察�I presume it is in the view of succeeding me in my office�察。�A secretary of state。��which I will very willingly resign to you�察�whenever you shall call upon me for it。  But�察�if you intend to be the �察�or the ´ �察�there are some trifling circumstances upon which you should previously take your resolution。  The first of which is�察�to be fit for it�此�and then�察�in order to be so�察�make yourself master of ancient and�察�modern history�察�and languages。  To know perfectly the constitution�察�and form of government of every nation�察�the growth and the decline of ancient and modern empires�察�and to trace out and reflect upon the causes of both。  To know the strength�察�the riches�察�and the commerce of every country。  These little things�察�trifling as they may seem�察�are yet very necessary for a politician to know�察�and which therefore�察�I presume�察�you will condescend to apply yourself to。  There are some additional qualifications necessary�察�in the practical part of business�察�which may deserve some consideration in your leisure moments�察�such as�察�an absolute command of your temper�察�so as not to be provoked to passion�察�upon any account�察�patience�察�to hear frivolous�察�impertinent�察�and unreasonable applications�察�with address enough to refuse�察�without offending�察�or�察�by your manner of granting�察�to double the obligation�察�dexterity enough to conceal a truth without telling a lie�察�sagacity enough to read other people's countenances�察�and serenity enough not to let them discover anything by yours�察�a seeming frankness with a real reserve。  These are the rudiments of a politician�察�the world must be your grammar。

Three mails are now due from Holland�察�so that I have no letters from you to acknowledge。  I therefore conclude with recommending myself to your favor and protection when you succeed。  Yours。




LETTER XXVI

LONDON�察�January 29�察�O。 S。  1748。

DEAR BOY�此�I find�察�by Mr。 Harte's last letter�察�that many of my letters to you and him�察�have been frozen up on their way to Leipsig�察�the thaw has�察�I suppose�察�by this time�察�set them at liberty to pursue their journey to you�察�and you will receive a glut of them at once。  Hudibras alludes�察�in this verse��

               Like words congealed in northern air��

to a vulgar notion�察�that in Greenland words were frozen in their utterance�察�and that upon a thaw�察�a very mixed conversation was heard in the air�察�of all those words set at liberty。  This conversation was�察�I presume�察�too various and extensive to be much attended to�此�and may not that be the case of half a dozen of my long letters�察�when you receive them all at once�拭 �I think that I can�察�eventually�察�answer that question�察�thus�此�If you consider my letters in their true light�察�as conveying to you the advice of a friend�察�who sincerely wishes your happiness�察�and desires to promote your pleasure�察�you will both read and attend to them�察�but�察�if you consider them in their opposite�察�and very false light�察�as the dictates of a morose and sermonizing father�察�I am sure they will be not only unattended to�察�but unread。  Which is the case�察�you can best tell me。 Advice is seldom welcome�察�and those who want it the most always like it the least。  I hope that your want of experience�察�of which you must be conscious�察�will convince you�察�that you want advice�察�and that your good sense will incline you to follow it。

Tell me how you pass your leisure hours at Leipsig�察�I know you have not many�察�and I have too good an opinion of you to think�察�that�察�at this age�察�you would desire more。  Have you assemblies�察�or public spectacles�拭�and of what kind are they�拭 �Whatever they are�察�see them all�察�seeing everything�察�is the only way not to admire anything too much。

If you ever take up little tale´books�察�to amuse you by snatches�察�I will recommend two French books�察�which I have already mentioned�察�they will entertain you�察�and not without some use to your mind and your manners。 One is�察�'La Maniere de bien penser dans les Ouvrages d'Esprit'�察�written by Pere Bouhours�察�I believe you read it once in England�察�with Monsieur Coderc�察�but I think that you will do well to read it again�察�as I know of no book that will form your taste better。  The other is�察�'L'Art de plaire dans la Conversation'�察�by the Abbe de Bellegarde�察�and is by no means useless�察�though I will not pretend to say�察�that the art of pleasing can be reduced to a receipt�察�if it could�察�I am sure that receipt would be worth purchasing at any price。  Good sense�察�and good nature�察�are the principal ingredients�察�and your own observation�察�and the good advice of others�察�must give the right color and taste to it。  Adieu� �I shall always love you as you shall deserve。




LETTER XXVII

LONDON�察�February 9�察�O。 S。  1748。

DEAR BOY�此�You will receive this letter�察�not from a Secretary of State but from a private man�察�for whom�察�at his time of life�察�quiet was as fit�察�and as necessary�察�as labor and activity are for you at your age�察�and for many years yet to come。  I resigned the seals�察�last Saturday�察�to the King�察�who parted with me most graciously�察�and ��I may add�察�for he said so himself�� with regret。  As I retire from hurry to quiet�察�and to enjoy�察�at my ease�察�the comforts of private and social life�察�you will easily imagine that I have no thoughts of opposition�察�or meddling with business

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