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;To this whimsical honor it is owing that the virtues are only just what it pleases�察�it adds rules of its own invention to everything prescribed to us�察�it extends or limits our duties according to its own fancy�察�whether they proceed from religion�察�politics�察�or morality。
;There is nothing so strongly inculcated in monarchies�察�by the laws�察�by religion�察�and honor�察�as submission to the Prince's will�察�but this very honor tells us�察�that the Prince never ought to command a dishonorable action�察�because this would render us incapable of serving him。
;Crillon refused to assassinate the Duke of Guise�察�but offered to fight him。 After the massacre of St。 Bartholomew�察�Charles IX。�察�having sent orders to the governors in the several provinces for the Huguenots to be murdered�察�Viscount Dorte�察�who commanded at Bayonne�察�wrote thus to the King�此�'Sire�察�Among the inhabitants of this town�察�and your Majesty's troops�察�I could not find so much as one executioner�察�they are honest citizens and brave soldiers。 We jointly�察�therefore�察�beseech your Majesty to command our arms and lives in things that are practicable。' This great and generous soul looked upon a base action as a thing impossible。
;There is nothing that honor more strongly recommends to the nobility�察�than to serve their Prince in a military capacity。 And indeed this is their favorite profession�察�because its dangers�察�its success�察�and even its miscarriages�察�are the road to grandeur。 Yet this very law�察�of its own making�察�honor chooses to explain�察�and in case of any affront�察�it requires or permits us to retire。
;It insists also�察�that we should be at liberty either to seek or to reject employments�察�a liberty which it prefers even to an ample fortune。
;Honor�察�therefore�察�has its supreme laws�察�to which education is obliged to conform。 The chief of these are�察�that we are permitted to set a value upon our fortune�察�but are absolutely forbidden to set any upon our lives。
;The second is�察�that when we are raised to a post or preferment�察�we should never do or permit anything which may seem to imply that we look upon ourselves as inferior to the rank we hold。
;The third is�察�that those things which honor forbids are more rigorously forbidden�察�when the laws do not concur in the prohibition�察�and those it commands are more strongly insisted upon�察�when they happen not to be commanded by law。;
Though our government differs considerably from the French�察�inasmuch as we have fixed laws and constitutional barriers for the security of our liberties and properties�察�yet the President's observations hold pretty near as true in England as in France。 Though monarchies may differ a good deal�察�kings differ very little。 Those who are absolute desire to continue so�察�and those who are not�察�endeavor to become so�察�hence the same maxims and manners almost in all courts�此�voluptuousness and profusion encouraged�察�the one to sink the people into indolence�察�the other into povertyconsequently into dependence。 The court is called the world here as well as at Paris�察�and nothing more is meant by saying that a man knows the world�察�than that he knows courts。 In all courts you must expect to meet with connections without friendship�察�enmities without hatred�察�honor without virtue�察�appearances saved�察�and realities sacrificed�察�good manners with bad morals�察�and all vice and virtues so disguised�察�that whoever has only reasoned upon both would know neither when he first met them at court。 It is well that you should know the map of that country�察�that when you come to travel in it�察�you may do it with greater safety。
From all this you will of yourself draw this obvious conclusion�此�That you are in truth but now going to the great and important school�察�the world�察�to which Westminster and Leipsig were only the little preparatory schools�察�as Marylebone�察�Windsor�察�etc。�察�are to them。 What you have already acquired will only place you in the second form of this new school�察�instead of the first。 But if you intend�察�as I suppose you do�察�to get into the shell�察�you have very different things to learn from Latin and Greek�此�and which require much more sagacity and attention than those two dead languages�察�the language of pure and simple nature�察�the language of nature variously modified and corrupted by passions�察�prejudices�察�and habits�察�the language of simulation and dissimulation�此�very hard�察�but very necessary to decipher。 Homer has not half so many�察�nor so difficult dialects�察�as the great book of the school you are now going to。 Observe�察�therefore�察�progressively�察�and with the greatest attention�察�what the best scholars in the form immediately above you do�察�and so on�察�until you get into the shell yourself。 Adieu。
Pray tell Mr。 Harte that I have received his letter of the 27th May�察�N。 S。�察�and that I advise him never to take the English newswriters literally�察�who never yet inserted any one thing quite right。 I have both his patent and his mandamus�察�in both which he is Walter�察�let the newspapers call him what they please。
LETTER CXVII
LONDON�察�July 9�察�O。 S。 1750。
MY DEAR FRIEND�此�I should not deserve that appellation in return from you�察�if I did not freely and explicitly inform you of every corrigible defect which I may either hear of�察�suspect�察�or at any time discover in you。 Those who�察�in the common course of the world�察�will call themselves your friends�察�or whom�察�according to the common notions of friendship�察�you may possibly think such�察�will never tell you of your faults�察�still less of your weaknesses。 But�察�on the contrary�察�more desirous to make you their friend�察�than to prove themselves yours�察�they will flatter both�察�and�察�in truth�察�not be sorry for either。 Interiorly�察�most people enjoy the inferiority of their best friends。 The useful and essential part of friendship�察�to you�察�is reserved singly for Mr。 Harte and myself�此�our relations to you stand pure and unsuspected of all private views。 In whatever we say to you�察�we can have no interest but yours。 We are therefore authorized to represent�察�advise�察�and remonstrate�察�and your reason must tell you that you ought to attend to and believe us。
I am credibly informed�察�that there is still a considerable hitch or hobble in your enunciation�察�and that when you speak fast you sometimes speak unintelligibly。 I have formerly and frequently laid my thoughts before you so fully upon this subject�察�that I can say nothing new upon it now。 I must therefore only repeat�察�that your whole depends upon it。 Your trade is to speak well�察�both in public and in private。 The manner of your speaking is full as important as the matter�察�as more people have ears to be tickled�察�than understandings to judge。 Be your productions ever so good�察�they will be of no use�察�if you stifle and strangle them in their birth。 The best compositions of Corelli�察�if ill executed and played out of tune�察�instead of touching�察�as they do when well performed�察�would only excite the indignation of the hearer's�察�when murdered by an unskillful performer。 But to murder your own productions�察�and that 'coram Populo'�察�is a MEDEAN CRUELTY�察�which Horace absolutely forbids。 Remember of what importance Demosthenes�察�and one of the Gracchi�察�thought ENUNCIATION�察�and read what stress Cicero and Quintilian lay upon it�察�even the herb´women at Athens were correct judges of it。 Oratory�察�with all its graces�察�that of enunciation in particular�察�is full as necessary in our government as it ever was in Greece or Rome。 No man can make a fortune or a figure in this country�察�without speaking�察�and speaking well in public。 If you will persuade�察�you must first please�察�and if you will please�察�you must tune your voice to harmony�察�you must articulate every syllable distinctly�察�your emphasis and cadences must be strongly and properly marked�察�and the whole together must be graceful and engaging�此�If you do not speak in that manner�察�you had much better not speak at all。 All the learning you have�察�or ever can have�察�is not worth one groat without it。 It may be a comfort and an amusement to you in your closet�察�but can be of no use to you in the world。 Let me conjure you�察�therefore�察�to make this your only object�察�till you have absolutely conquered it�察�for that is in your power�察�think of nothing else�察�read and speak for nothing else。 Read aloud�察�though alone�察�and read articulately and distinctly�察�as if you were reading in public�察�and on the most important occasion。 Recite pieces of eloquence�察�declaim scenes of tragedies to Mr。 Harte�察�as if he were a numerous audience。 If there is any particular consonant which you have a difficulty in articulating�察�as I think you had with the R�察�utter it millions and millions of times�察�till you have uttered it right。 Never speak quick�察�till you have first learned to speak well。 In short�察�lay aside every book�察�and every thought�察�that does not directly tend to this great object�察�absolutely decisive of your future fortune and figure。
The next thing necessary in your destination�察�is writing correctly�察�elegantly�察�and in a good hand too�察�in which three particulars�察�I am sorry to tell you�察�that you hitherto fail。 Your handwriting is a very bad one�察�and would make a scurvy figure in an office´book of letters�察�or even in a lady's pocket´book。 But that fault is easily cured by care�察�since every man�察�who has the use of his eyes and of his right hand�察�can write whatever hand he pleases。 As to the correctness and elegance of your writing�察�attention to grammar does the one�察�and to the best authors the other。 In your letter to me of the 27th June�察�N。 S。�察�you omitted the date of the place�察�so that I only conjectured from the contents that you were at Rome。
Thus I have�察�with the truth and freedom of the tenderest affection�察�told you all your defects�察�at least all that I know or have heard of。 Thank God�察�they are all very curable�察�they must be cured�察�and I am sure�察�you will cure them。 That once done�察�nothing remains for you to acquire�察�or for me to wish you�察�but the turn�察�the manners�察�the address�察�and the GRACES�察�of the polite world�察�which experience�察�observation�察�and good company�察�will insensibly give you。 Few people at your age have read�察�seen�察�and known�察�so much as you have�察�and consequently few are so near as yourself to what I call perfection�察�by which I only�察�mean being very near as well as the best。 Far�察�therefore�察�f