a vindication of the rights of woman-第48部分
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mpt on those who could not vie with them in dress and parade。 With respect to love; nature; or their nurses; had taken care to teach them the physical meaning of the word; and; as they had few topics of conversation; and fewer refinements of sentiment; they expressed their gross wishes not in very delicate phrases; when they spoke freely; talking of matrimony。 Could these girls have been injured by the perusal of novels? I almost forgot a shade in the character of one of them; she affected a simplicity bordering on folly; and with a simper would utter the most immodest remarks and questions; the full meaning of which she had learned whilst secluded from the world; and afraid to speak in her mother's presence; who governed with a high hand; they were all educated; as she prided herself; in a most exemplary manner; and read their chapters and psalms before breakfast; never touching a silly novel。 This is only one instance; but I recollect many other women who; not led by degrees to proper studies; and not permitted to choose for themselves; have indeed been overgrown children; or have obtained; by mixing in the world; a little of what is termed common sense; that is; a distinct manner of seeing common occurrences; as they stand detached: but what deserves the name of intellect; the power of gaining general or abstract ideas; or even intermediate ones; was out of the question。 Their minds were quiescent; and when they were not roused by sensible objects and employments of that kind; they were low…spirited; would cry; or go to sleep。 When; therefore; I advise my sex not to read such flimsy works; it is to induce them to read something superior; for I coincide in opinion with a sagacious man; who; having a daughter and niece under his care; pursued a very different plan with each。 The niece; who had considerable abilities; had; before she was left to his guardianship; been indulged in desultory reading。 Her he endeavoured to lead; and did lead; to history and moral essays; but his daughter whom a fond weak mother had indulged; and who consequently was averse to every thing like application; he allowed to read novels; and used to justify his conduct by saying; that if she ever attained a relish for reading them; he should have some foundation to work upon; and that erroneous opinions were better than none at all。 In fact; the female mind has been so totally neglected; that knowledge was only to be acquired from this muddy source; till from reading novels some women of superior talents learned to despise them。 The best method; I believe; that can be adopted to correct a fondness for novels is to ridicule them; not indiscriminately; for then it would have little effect; but; if a judicious person; with some turn for humour; would read several to a young girl; and point out; both by tones and apt comparisons with pathetic incidents and heroic characters in history; how foolishly and ridiculously they caricatured human nature; just opinions might be substituted instead of romantic sentiments。 In one respect; however; the majority of both sexes resemble; and equally show a want of taste and modesty。 Ignorant women; forced to be chaste to preserve their reputation; allow their imagination to revel in the unnatural and meretricious scenes sketched by the novel writers of the day; slighting as insipid the sober dignity and matronly grace of history;* whilst men carry the same vitiated taste into life; and fly for amusement to the wanton; from the unsophisticated charms of virtue; and the grave respectability of sense。 (*Footnote。 I am not now alluding to that superiority of mind which leads to the creation of ideal beauty; when life surveyed with a penetrating eye; appears a tragi…comedy; in which little can be seen to satisfy the heart without the help of fancy。) Besides; the reading of novels makes women; and particularly ladies of fashion; very fond of using strong expressions and superlatives in conversation; and; though the dissipated artificial life which they lead prevents their cherishing any strong legitimate passion; the language of passion in affected tones slips for ever from their glib tongues; and every trifle produces those phosphoric bursts which only mimick in the dark the flame of passion。 SECTION 13。3。 Ignorance and the mistaken cunning that nature sharpens in weak heads; as a principle of self…preservation; render women very fond of dress; and produce all the vanity which such a fondness may naturally be expected to generate; to the exclusion of emulation and magnanimity。 I agree with Rousseau; that the physical part of the art of pleasing consists in ornaments; and for that very reason I should guard girls against the contagious fondness for dress so common to weak women; that they may not rest in the physical part。 Yet; weak are the women who imagine that they can long please without the aid of the mind; or; in other words; without the moral art of pleasing。 But the moral art; if it be not a profanation to use the word art; when alluding to the grace which is an effect of virtue; and not the motive of action; is never to be found with ignorance; the sportiveness of innocence; so pleasing to refined libertines of both sexes; is widely different in its essence from this superior gracefulness。 A strong inclination for external ornaments ever appears in barbarous states; only the men not the women adorn themselves; for where women are allowed to be so far on a level with men; society has advanced at least one step in civilization。 The attention to dress; therefore; which has been thought a sexual propensity; I think natural to mankind。 But I ought to express myself with more precision。 When the mind is not sufficiently opened to take pleasure in reflection; the body will be adorned with sedulous care; and ambition will appear in tattooing or painting it。 So far is the first inclination carried; that even the hellish yoke of slavery cannot stifle the savage desire of admiration which the black heroes inherit from both their parents; for all the hardly…earned savings of a slave are commonly expended in a little tawdry finery。 And I have seldom known a good male or female servant that was not particularly fond of dress。 Their clothes were their riches; and I argue from analogy; that the fondness for dress; so extravagant in females; arises from the same causewant of cultivation of mind。 When men meet they converse about business; politics; or literature; but; says Swift; 〃how naturally do women apply their hands to each others lappets and ruffles。〃 And very natural it isfor they have not any business to interest them; have not a taste for literature; and they find politics dry; because they have not acquired a love for mankind by turning their thoughts to the grand pursuits that exalt the human race and promote general happiness。 Besides; various are the paths to power and fame; which by accident or choice men pursue; and though they jostle against each other; for men of the same profession are seldom friends; yet there is a much greater number of their fellow…creatures with whom they never clash。 But women are very differently situated with respect to each otherfor they are all rivals。 Before marriage it is their business to please men; and after; with a few exceptions; they follow the same scent; with all the persevering pertinacity of instinct。 Even virtuous women never forget their sex in company; for they are for ever trying to make themselves AGREEABLE。 A female beauty and a male wit; appear to be equally anxious to draw the attention of the company to themselves; and the animosity of contemporary wits is proverbial。 Is it then surprising; that when the sole ambition of woman centres in beauty; and interest gives vanity additional force; perpetual rivalships should ensue? They are all running the same race; and would rise above the virtue of mortals if they did not view each other with a suspicious and even envious eye。 An immoderate fondness for dress; for pleasure and for sway; are the passions of savages; the passions that occupy those uncivilized beings who have not yet extended the dominion of the mind; or even learned to think with the energy necessary to concatenate that abstract train of thought which produces principles。 And that women; from their education and the present state of civilized life; are in the same condition; cannot; I think; be controverted。 To laugh at them then; or satirize the follies of a being who is never to be allowed to act freely from the light of her own reason; is as absurd as cruel; for that they who are taught blindly to obey authority; will endeavour cunningly to elude it; is most natural and certain。 Yet let it be proved; that they ought to obey man implicitly; and I shall immediately agree that it is woman's duty to cultivate a fondness for dress; in order to please; and a propensity to cunning for her own preservation。 The virtues; however; which are supported by ignorance; must ever be waveringthe house built on sand could not endure a storm。 It is almost unnecessary to draw the inference。 If women are to be made virtuous by authority; which is a contradiction in terms; let them be immured in seraglios and watched with a jealous eye。 Fear not that the iron will enter into their soulsfor the souls that can bear such treatment are made of yielding materials; just animated enough to give life to the body。 〃Matter too soft a lasting mark to bear; And best distinguish'd by black; brown; or fair。〃 The most cruel wounds will of course soon heal; and they may still people the world; and dress to please manall the purposes which certain celebrated writers have allowed that they were created to fill。 SECTION 13。4。 Women are supposed to possess more sensibility; and even humanity; than men; and their strong attachments and instantaneous emotions of compassion are given as proofs; but the clinging affection of ignorance has seldom any thing noble in it; and may mostly be resolved into selfishness; as well as the affection of children and brutes。 I have known many weak women whose sensibility was entirely engrossed by their husbands; and as for their humanity; it was very faint indeed; or rather it was only a transient emotion of compassion; 〃Humanity does not consist in a squeami