letters to his son, 1749-第22部分
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orld。 Some Madame de l'Ursay would be the proper person。 In short; I can assure you; that he has everything which Lord Chesterfield can wish him; excepting that carriage; those graces; and the style used in the best company; which he will certainly acquire in time; and by frequenting the polite world。 If he should not; it would be great pity; since he so well deserves to possess them。 You know their importance。 My Lord; his father; knows it too; he being master of them all。 To conclude; if little Stanhope acquires the graces; I promise you he will make his way; if not; he will be stopped in a course; the goal of which he might attain with honor。'
Tell Mr。 Harte that I have this moment received his letter of the 22d; N。 S。; and that I approve extremely of the long stay you have made at Venice。 I love long residences at capitals; running post through different places is a most unprofitable way of traveling; and admits of no application。 Adieu。
You see; by this extract; of what consequence other people think these things。 Therefore; I hope you will no longer look upon them as trifles。 It is the character of an able man to despise little things in great business: but then he knows what things are little; and what not。 He does not suppose things are little; because they are commonly called so: but by the consequences that may or may not attend them。 If gaining people's affections; and interesting their hearts in your favor; be of consequence; as it undoubtedly is; he knows very well that a happy concurrence of all those; commonly called little things; manners; air; address; graces; etc。; is of the utmost consequence; and will never be at rest till he has acquired them。 The world is taken by the outside of things; and we must take the world as it is; you nor I cannot set it right。 I know; at this time; a man of great quality and station; who has not the parts of a porter; but raised himself to the station he is in; singly by having a graceful figure; polite manners; and an engaging address; which; by the way; he only acquired by habit; for he had not sense enough to get them by reflection。 Parts and habit should conspire to complete you。 You will have the habit of good company; and you have reflection in your power。
LETTER XCIII
LONDON; December 5; O。 S。 1749。
DEAR BOY: Those who suppose that men in general act rationally; because they are called rational creatures; know very little of the world; and if they act themselves upon that supposition; will nine times in ten find themselves grossly mistaken。 That man is; 'animal bipes; implume; risibile'; I entirely agree; but for the 'rationale'; I can only allow it him 'in actu primo' (to talk logic) and seldom in 'actu secundo'。 Thus; the speculative; cloistered pedant; in his solitary cell; forms systems of things as they should be; not as they are; and writes as decisively and absurdly upon war; politics; manners; and characters; as that pedant talked; who was so kind as to instruct Hannibal in the art of war。 Such closet politicians never fail to assign the deepest motives for the most trifling actions; instead of often ascribing the greatest actions to the most trifling causes; in which they would be much seldomer mistaken。 They read and write of kings; heroes; and statesmen; as never doing anything but upon the deepest principles of sound policy。 But those who see and observe kings; heroes; and statesmen; discover that they have headaches; indigestions; humors; and passions; just like other people; everyone of which; in their turns; determine their wills; in defiance of their reason。 Had we only read in the 〃Life of Alexander;〃 that he burned Persepolis; it would doubtless have been accounted for from deep policy: we should have been told; that his new conquest could not have been secured without the destruction of that capital; which would have been the constant seat of cabals; conspiracies; and revolts。 But; luckily; we are informed at the same time; that this hero; this demi…god; this son and heir of Jupiter Ammon; happened to get extremely drunk with his w…e; and; by way of frolic; destroyed one of the finest cities in the world。 Read men; therefore; yourself; not in books but in nature。 Adopt no systems; but study them yourself。 Observe their weaknesses; their passions; their humors; of all which their understandings are; nine times in ten; the dupes。 You will then know that they are to be gained; influenced; or led; much oftener by little things than by great ones; and; consequently; you will no longer think those things little; which tend to such great purposes。
Let us apply this now to the particular object of this letter; I mean; speaking in; and influencing public assemblies。 The nature of our constitution makes eloquence more useful; and more necessary; in this country than in any other in Europe。 A certain degree of good sense and knowledge is requisite for that; as well as for everything else; but beyond that; the purity of diction; the elegance of style; the harmony of periods; a pleasing elocution; and a graceful action; are the things which a public speaker should attend to the most; because his audience certainly does; and understands them the best; or rather indeed understands little else。 The late Lord Chancellor Cowper's strength as an orator lay by no means in his reasonings; for he often hazarded very weak ones。 But such was the purity and elegance of his style; such the propriety and charms of his elocution; and such the gracefulness of his action; that he never spoke without universal applause; the ears and the eyes gave him up the hearts and the understandings of the audience。 On the contrary; the late Lord Townshend always spoke materially; with argument and knowledge; but never pleased。 Why? His diction was not only inelegant; but frequently ungrammatical; always vulgar; his cadences false; his voice unharmonious; and his action ungraceful。 Nobody heard him with patience; and the young fellows used to joke upon him; and repeat his inaccuracies。 The late Duke of Argyle; though the weakest reasoner; was the most pleasing speaker I ever knew in my life。 He charmed; he warmed; he forcibly ravished the audience; not by his matter certainly; but by his manner of delivering it。 A most genteel figure; a graceful; noble air; an harmonious voice; an elegance of style; and a strength of emphasis; conspired to make him the most affecting; persuasive; and applauded speaker I ever saw。 I was captivated like others; but when I came home; and coolly considered what he had said; stripped of all those ornaments in which he had dressed it; I often found the matter flimsy; the arguments weak; and I was convinced of the power of those adventitious concurring circumstances; which ignorance of mankind only calls trifling ones。 Cicero; in his book 'De Oratore'; in order to raise the dignity of that profession which he well knew himself to be at the head of; asserts that a complete orator must be a complete everything; lawyer; philosopher; divine; etc。 That would be extremely well; if it were possible: but man's life is not long enough; and I hold him to be the completest orator; who speaks the best upon that subject which occurs; whose happy choice of words; whose lively imagination; whose elocution and action adorn and grace his matter; at the same time that they excite the attention and engage the passions of his audience。
You will be of the House of Commons as soon as you are of age; and you must first make a figure there; if you would make a figure; or a fortune; in your country。 This you can never do without that correctness and elegance in your own language; which you now seem to neglect; and which you have entirely to learn。 Fortunately for you; it is to be learned。 Care and observation will do it; but do not flatter yourself; that all the knowledge; sense; and reasoning in the world will ever make you a popular and applauded speaker; without the ornaments and the graces of style; elocution; and action。 Sense and argument; though coarsely delivered; will have their weight in a private conversation; with two or three people of sense; but in a public assembly they will have none; if naked and destitute of the advantages I have mentioned。 Cardinal de Retz observes; very justly; that every numerous assembly is a mob; influenced by their passions; humors; and affections; which nothing but eloquence ever did or ever can engage。 This is so important a consideration for everybody in this country; and more particularly for you; that I earnestly recommend it to your most serious care and attention。 Mind your diction; in whatever language you either write or speak; contract a habit of correctness and elegance。 Consider your style; even in the freest conversation and most familiar letters。 After; at least; if not before; you have said a thing; reflect if you could not have said it better。 Where you doubt of the propriety or elegance of a word or a phrase; consult some good dead or living authority in that language。 Use yourself to translate; from various languages into English; correct those translations till they satisfy your ear; as well as your understanding。 And be convinced of this truth; that the best sense and reason in the world will be as unwelcome in a public assembly; without these ornaments; as they will in public companies; without the assistance of manners and politeness。 If you will please people; you must please them in their own way; and; as you cannot make them what they should be; you must take them as they are。 I repeat it again; they are only to be taken by 'agremens'; and by what flatters their senses and their hearts。 Rabelais first wrote a most excellent book; which nobody liked; then; determined to conform to the public taste; he wrote Gargantua and Pantagruel; which everybody liked; extravagant as it was。 Adieu。
LETTER XCIV
LONDON; December 9; O。 S。 1749。
DEAR BOY: It is now above forty years since I have never spoken nor written one single word; without giving myself at least one moment's time to consider whether it was a good or a bad one; and whether I could not find out a better in its place。 An unharmonious and rugged period; at this time; shocks my ears; and I; like all th