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a predominant passion; that he will act invariably and consequentially in the pursuit of it。  No。  We are complicated machines: and though we have one main…spring; that gives motion to the whole; we have an infinity of little wheels; which; in their turns; retard; precipitate; and sometimes stop that motion。  Let us exemplify。  I will suppose ambition to be (as it commonly is) the predominant passion of a minister of state; and I will suppose that minister to be an able one。  Will he; therefore; invariably pursue the object of that predominant passion?  May I be sure that he will do so and so; because he ought?  Nothing less。  Sickness or low spirits; may damp this predominant passion; humor and peevishness may triumph over it; inferior passions may; at times; surprise it and prevail。  Is this ambitious statesman amorous?  Indiscreet and unguarded confidences; made in tender moments; to his wife or his mistress; may defeat all his schemes。  Is he avaricious?  Some great lucrative object; suddenly presenting itself; may unravel all the work of his ambition。  Is he passionate?  Contradiction and provocation (sometimes; it may be; too; artfully intended) may extort rash and inconsiderate expressions; or actions destructive of his main object。  Is he vain; and open to flattery?  An artful; flattering favorite may mislead him; and even laziness may; at certain moments; make him neglect or omit the necessary steps to that height at which he wants to arrive。  Seek first; then; for the predominant passion of the character which you mean to engage and influence; and address yourself to it; but without defying or despising the inferior passions; get them in your interest too; for now and then they will have their turns。  In many cases; you may not have it in your power to contribute to the gratification of the prevailing passion; then take the next best to your aid。  There are many avenues to every man; and when you cannot get at him through the great one; try the serpentine ones; and you will arrive at last。

There are two inconsistent passions; which; however; frequently accompany each other; like man and wife; and which; like man and wife too; are commonly clogs upon each other。  I mean ambition and avarice: the latter is often the true cause of the former; and then is the predominant passion。  It seems to have been so in Cardinal Mazarin; who did anything; submitted to anything; and forgave anything; for the sake of plunder。 He loved and courted power; like a usurer; because it carried profit along with it。  Whoever should have formed his opinion; or taken his measures; singly; from the ambitious part of Cardinal Mazarin's character; would have found himself often mistaken。  Some who had found this out; made their fortunes by letting him cheat them at play。  On the contrary; Cardinal Richelieu's prevailing passion seems to have been ambition; and his immense riches only the natural consequences of that ambition gratified; and yet; I make no doubt; but that ambition had now and then its turn with the former; and avarice with the latter。 Richelieu (by the way) is so strong a proof of the inconsistency of human nature; that I cannot help observing to you; that while he absolutely governed both his king and his country; and was; in a great degree; the arbiter of the fate of all Europe; he was more jealous of the great reputation of Corneille than of the power of Spain; and more flattered with being thought (what he was not) the best poet; than with being thought (what he certainly was) the greatest statesman in Europe; and affairs stood still while he was concerting the criticism upon the Cid。 Could one think this possible; if one did not know it to be true?  Though men are all of one composition; the several ingredients are so differently proportioned ;in each individual; that no two are exactly alike; and no one at all times like himself。  The ablest man will sometimes do weak things; the proudest man; mean things; the honestest man; ill things; and the wickedest man; good ones。  Study individuals then; and if you take (as you ought to do;) their outlines from their prevailing passion; suspend your last finishing strokes till you have attended to; and discovered the operations of their inferior passions; appetites; and humors。  A man's general character may be that of the honestest man of the world: do not dispute it; you might be thought envious or ill…natured; but; at the same time; do not take this probity upon trust to such a degree as to put your life; fortune; or reputation in his power。  This honest man may happen to be your rival in power; in interest; or in love; three passions that often put honesty to most severe trials; in which it is too often cast; but first analyze this honest man yourself; and then only you will be able to judge how far you may; or may not; with safety trust him。

Women are much more like each other than men: they have; in truth; but two passions; vanity and love; these are their universal characteristics。 An Agrippina may sacrifice them to ambition; or a Messalina to lust; but those instances are rare; and; in general; all they say; and all they do; tends to the gratification of their vanity or their love。  He who flatters them most; pleases them best; and they are the most in love with him; who they think is the most in love with them。  No adulation is too strong for them; no assiduity too great; no simulation of passion too gross; as; on the other hand; the least word or action that can possibly be construed into a slight or contempt; is unpardonable; and never forgotten。  Men are in this respect tender too; and will sooner forgive an injury than an insult。  Some men are more captious than others; some are always wrongheaded; but every man living has such a share of vanity; as to be hurt by marks of slight and contempt。  Every man does not pretend to be a poet; a mathematician; or a statesman; and considered as such; but every man pretends to common sense; and to fill his place in the world with common decency; and; consequently; does not easily forgive those negligences; inattentions and slights which seem to call in question; or utterly deny him both these pretensions。

Suspect; in general; those who remarkably affect any one virtue; who raise it above all others; and who; in a manner; intimate that they possess it exclusively。  I say suspect them; for they are commonly impostors; but do not be sure that they are always so; for I have sometimes known saints really religious; blusterers really brave; reformers of manners really honest; and prudes really chaste。  Pry into the recesses of their hearts yourself; as far as you are able; and never implicitly adopt a character upon common fame; which; though generally right as to the great outlines of characters; is always wrong in some particulars。

Be upon your guard against those who upon very slight acquaintance; obtrude their unasked and unmerited friendship and confidence upon you; for they probably cram you with them only for their own eating; but; at the same time; do not roughly reject them upon that general supposition。 Examine further; and see whether those unexpected offers flow from a warm heart and a silly head; or from a designing head and a cold heart; for knavery and folly have often the same symptoms。  In the first case; there is no danger in accepting them; 'valeant quantum valere possunt'。  In the latter case; it may be useful to seem to accept them; and artfully to turn the battery upon him who raised it。

There is an incontinency of friendship among young fellows; who are associated by their mutual pleasures only; which has; very frequently; bad consequences。  A parcel of warm hearts and inexperienced heads; heated by convivial mirth; and possibly a little too much wine; vow; and really mean at the time; eternal friendships to each other; and indiscreetly pour out their whole souls in common; and without the least reserve。  These confidences are as indiscreetly repealed as they were made; for new pleasures and new places soon dissolve this ill…cemented connection; and then very ill uses are made of these rash confidences。 Bear your part; however; in young companies; nay; excel; if you can; in all the social and convivial joy and festivity that become youth。  Trust them with your love tales; if you please; but keep your serious views secret。  Trust those only to some tried friend; more experienced than yourself; and who; being in a different walk of life from you; is not likely to become your rival; for I would not advise you to depend so much upon the heroic virtue of mankind; as to hope or believe that your competitor will ever be your friend; as to the object of that competition。

These are reserves and cautions very necessary to have; but very imprudent to show; the 'volto sciolto' should accompany them。  Adieu。




LETTER XCVIII

DEAR BOY:  Great talents and great virtues (if you should have them) will procure you the respect and the admiration of mankind; but it is the lesser talents; the 'leniores virtutes'; which must procure you their love and affection。  The former; unassisted and unadorned by the latter; will extort praise; but will; at the same time; excite both fear and envy; two sentiments absolutely incompatible with love and affection。

Caesar had all the great vices; and Cato all the great virtues; that men could have。  But Caesar had the 'leniores virtutes' which Cato wanted; and which made him beloved; even by his enemies; and gained him the hearts of mankind; in spite of their reason: while Cato was not even beloved by his friends; notwithstanding the esteem and respect which they could not refuse to his virtues; ;and I am apt to think; that if Caesar had wanted; and Cato possessed; those 'leniores virtutes'; the former would not have attempted (at least with success); and the latter could have protected; the liberties of Rome。  Mr。 Addison; in his 〃Cato;〃 says of Caesar (and I believe with truth);

          〃Curse on his virtues; they've undone his country。〃

By which he means those lesser; but engaging virtues of gentleness; affability; complaisance; and good humor。  The knowledge of a scholar; the courage of a hero; and the virtue of a Stoic; will be admired; but if the knowledge be accompanied with a

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