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fortune to be sitting at table with her I wanted to ask her�察 �How did you 

get your songs known�拭�How did you know what kind of songs the people 

want to sing�拭─�

     But in the hour she talked with her friends around the table I found the 

answer to every question。 ;Isn't it good to be here�拭�Isn't it great to have 

friends and a fine home and money�拭─�she said。 ;I have had such a struggle 

in my life。 I have lived on one meal a day and didn't know where the next 

meal was coming from。 I know what it is to be left alone in the world upon 

my   own   resources。   I   have   had   years   of   struggle。   I   have   been   sick   and 

discouraged   and   down   and   out。   It   was   in   my   little   back´room�察  �the   only 

home I had�察�that I began to write songs。 I wrote them for my own relief。 I 

was   writing   my   own   life�察  �just   what   was   in   my   own   heart   and   what   the 

struggles were teaching me。 No one is more surprised and grateful that the 

world seems to love my songs and asks for more of them。; 

     The   woman   was   Carrie   Jacobs´Bond�察 �who   wrote   ;The   Perfect   Day�察─�

;Just a Wearyin' for You�察─ �His Lullaby; and many more of those simple 

little songs so full of the pathos and philosophy of life that they tug at your 

heart and moisten your eyes。 

     Anybody could write those songsjust a few simple words and notes。 

No。   Books   of   theory  and   harmony  and   expression   only  teach   us   how   to 

write the words and where to place the notes。 These are not the song�察�but 

only the skeleton into which our own life must breathe the life of the song。 



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     The   woman   who   sat   there   clad   in   black�察  �with   her   sweet�察  �expressive 

face   crowned   with   silvery   hair�察  �had   learned   to   write   her   songs   in   the 

University of Hard Knocks。 She here became the song philosopher she is 

today。   Her   defeats   were   her   victories。   If   Carrie   Jacobs´Bond   had   never 

struggled with discouragement�察�sickness�察�poverty and loneliness�察�she never 

would have been able to write the songs that appeal to the multitudes who 

have the same battles。 

     The popular song is the  song that   best voices   what is   in the  popular 

heart。 And while we have a continual inundation of popular songs that are 

trashy  and   voice   the   tawdriest   human   impulses�察 �yet   it   is   a   tribute   to   the 

good   elements   in   humanity   that   the   wholesome�察  �uplifting   sentiments   in 

Carrie Jacobs´Bond's songs continue to hold their popularity。 



                                 Theory and Practice 



       My friends�察�I am not arguing that you and I must drink the dregs of 

defeat�察  �or   that   our   lives   must   fill   up   with   poverty  or   sorrow�察  �or   become 

wrecks。 But I am insisting upon what I see written all around me in the 

affairs of everyday life�察�that none of us will ever know real success in any 

line of human endeavor until that success flows from the fullness of our 

experience just as the songs came from the life of Carrie Jacobs´Bond。 

     The world is full of theorists�察�dreamers�察�uplifters�察�reformers�察�who have 

worthy  visions   but   are   not   able   to   translate   them   into   practical   realities。 

They go around with their heads in the clouds�察�looking upward�察�and half 

the time   their   feet   are   in the   flower´beds   or   trampling upon   their   fellow 

men   they   dream   of   helping。   Their   ideas   must   be   forged   into   usefulness 

available for this day upon the anvil of experience。 

     Many of the most brilliant theorists have been the greatest failures in 

practice。 

     There are a thousand who can tell you what is the matter with things to 

one person who can give you a practical way to fix them。 

     I   used   to   have   respect   amounting   to   reverence   for   great   readers   and 



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book   men。   I   used   to   know   a   man   who   could   tell   in   what   book   almost 

anything you could think of was discussed�察�and perhaps the page。 He was 

a walking library index。 I thought him a most wonderful man。 Indeed�察�in 

my childhood I thought he was the greatest man in the world。 

     He   was   a   remarkable   mana   great   reader   and   with   a   memory   that 

retained it all。 That man could recite chapters and volumes。 He could give 

you     almost    any    date。   He    could    finish    almost    any    quotation。     His 

conversation was largely made up of classical quotations。 

     But he was one of the most helpless men I have ever seen in practical 

life。   He   seemed   to   be   unable   to   think   and   reason   for   himself。   He   could 

quote a page of John Locke�察�but somehow the page didn't supply the one 

sentence needed for the occasion。 The man was a misfit on earth。 He was 

liable to put the gravy in his coffee and the gasoline in the fire。 He seemed 

never   to   have   digested   any   of   the   things   in   his   memory。   Since   I   have 

grown up I always think of that man as an intellectual cold storage plant。 

     The greatest book is the textbook of the University of Hard Knocks�察�

the Book of Human Experience the ;sermons in stones; and the ;books in 

running      brooks。;     Most     fortunate    is   he   who     has   learned     to   read 

understandingly from it。 



     Note the sweeping�察�positive statements of the young person。 

     Note the cautious�察�specific statements of the person who has lived long 

in this world。 

     Our education is our progress from the sweeping�察�positive�察�wholesale 

statements   we   have   not   proved�察  �to   the   cautious�察  �specific   statements   we 

have proved。 



                           Tuning the Strings of Life 



       Many   audiences   are   gathered   into   this   one   audience。   Each   person 

here    is  a  different   audience�察   �reading    a  different   page    in  the  Book    of 



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Human   Experience。   Each   has   a   different   fight   to   make   and   a   different 

burden to carry。 Each one of us has more trouble than anybody else� �

     I   know  there   are   chapters   of heroism  in   the   lives of   you   older   ones。 

You   have   cried   yourselves   to   sleep�察  �some   of   you�察  �and   walked   the   floor 

when you could not sleep。 You have learned that ;beyond the Alps lieth 

Italy。; 

     A good many of you were bumped today or yesterday�察�or maybe years 

ago�察�and the wound has not healed。 You think it never will heal。 You came 

here thinking that perhaps you would forget your trouble for a little while。 

I know there are people in this audience in pain。 

     Never do this many gather but what there are some with aching hearts。 

     And   you   young   people   here   with   lives   like   June   mornings�察  �are   not 

much interested in this lecture。 You are polite and attentive because this is 

a   polite   and   attentive   neighborhood。   But   down   in   your   hearts   you   are 

asking�察 �What is this all about�拭�What is that man talking about�拭�I haven't 

had these things and I'm not going to have them�察�either� ─�

     Maybe some of you are naturally bright� �

     You are going to be bumped。 You are going to cry yourselves to sleep。 

You are going to walk the floor when you cannot sleep。 Some of you are 

going to know  the keen sorrow  of having the one   you   trust   most   betray 

you。 Maybe�察�betray you with a kiss。 You will go through your Gethsemane。 

You   will   see   your   dearest plans   wrecked。 You   will see   all that   seems   to 

make life livable lost out of your horizon。 You will say�察 �God�察�let me die。 I 

have nothing more to live for。; 

     For   all   lives   have   about   the   same   elements。 Your   life   is   going   to   be 

about like other lives。 



     And   you   are   going   to   learn   the   wonderful   lesson   thru   the   years�察  �the 

bumps      and   the   tears�察  �that  all  these   things    somehow       are  necessary     to 

promote our education。 

     These bumps and hard knocks do not break the fiddlethey turn   the 

pegs。 



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     These bumps and tragedies and Waterloos draw the strings of the soul 

tighter and tighter�察�nearer and nearer to God's great concert pitch�察�where 

the    discords    fade   from    our   lives  and    where    the   music    divine    and 

harmonies celestial come from the same old strings that had been sending 

forth the noise and discord。 

     Thus    we   know     that  our   education    is  progressing�察   �as  the  evil   and 

unworthy go out of our lives and as peace�察�harmony�察�happiness�察�love and 

understanding come into our lives。 

     That is getting in tune。 

     That is growing up。 



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                                Chapter VIII 



     Looking Backward 

     Memories of the Price We Pay 

       WHAT a price we pay for what we know� �I laugh as I look backward´ 

´and weep and rejoice。 

     I   was   not   born   with   a   silver   spoon   in   my   mouth�察  �altho   it   is   quite 

evident   that   I   could   have   handled   a   pretty   good´sized   spoon。   But   father 

being   a   country   preacher�察  �we   had   tin   spoons。 We   never   had   to   tie   

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